Board of Directors
Personal Statements From the NFXF Board of Directors
After searching for a diagnosis for my older daughter for a number of years without success, our pediatrician recognized some manifestations in my youngest daughter as a result of the NFXF/CDC mailer. I am forever grateful, and most passionate about increasing awareness in all populations.
I’m thrilled and honored to be a member of the board of directors. My husband and I are the proud parents of two “tween-age” kids in Grand Blanc, Michigan. Our son has fragile X syndrome while his younger sister does not and is not a carrier. Being a board member has really brought me full-circle, as I vividly remember the day I called the foundation just after our son was diagnosed, looking for answers, direction and an ear. While I still need all of those things, I hope to help provide answers, direction and an ear for other families as a board member. With my background in television reporting, I’m also hoping to assist the foundation in its efforts to reach all Americans impacted by Fragile X and to helping pave the future with greater awareness, better treatments and, ultimately, a cure.
I am a general practitioner attorney in Fort Wayne, Indiana and partner in a small firm with my father and sister. I was introduced to all things Fragile X after diagnosis of my son Mitchell in 2001. Following a long discussion after the initial diagnosis, plus attendance at four of the NFXF’s international conferences, I became an official trustee in 2006 and I accepted the invitation to become a board member in 2008 when my sixth year as an ARC foundation board member ended. It was also due in large part to the request of good friends and fellow parents who were active with the NFXF and had led by example with their selfless and tireless efforts to help my son and all families impacted by Fragile X. I felt that I (and every parent with any time or means at all) owes it to our children to get involved because if people like me won’t go the extra mile to attempt to cure Fragile X (and do all of the other things the foundation does that truly helps all families affected by it), why should anyone else in this world care about our children’s plight?
I am married to Melissa and the proud father of two children, Colin (18) and Tatyana (14). Since Colin’s diagnosis at the age of 9 months, we have relied heavily on the foundation for information, advice and support, and I am honored for the privilege to serve as a board member of such a well-run and respected organization. I have been an active member of the Maryland Resource Group since its inception (treasurer since 2001) and am looking forward to serving the broader Fragile X community.
In 1992 my wife Lisa and I were blessed to become the parents of an 8lb., 3oz. baby boy. My first son, Dillon Michael Carollo Kelley, was diagnosed with fragile X syndrome in 1995 at 30 months old. My life had changed forever. We currently live in Southern Maryland with our two sons (Dillon, now 17, and Ryan, 15). My wife’s Lisa’s extended family is also impacted by FXS, FXPOI and FXTAS.
My wife, Mary Beth Langan, and I live in Grosse Pointe, Michigan, with our son, Andrew, 10, who is affected by fragile X syndrome. We were typical parents who said ‘Fragile what?’ when Andrew was diagnosed at age 21 months in October 2002. Fragile X has become a big part of our lives. Mary Beth has FXPOI and her dad, Jack Langan, has FXTAS. Mary Beth is active in the Fragile X Association of Michigan. I have helped both FXAM and NFXF with marketing and communications for a number of years and am happy to now become even more involved as a member of the NFXF Board of Directors. In addition to my busy schedule as Andrew’s dad, I am the associate vice president of marketing at Eastern Michigan University and, along with Mary Beth, a columnist of “X-tra Special Advice” in The Grosse Pointe News for parents of children with special needs.
My wife, Bonnie, and I are proud parents of four beautiful children: two sons, Jeff and Joey and, two daughters, Jenny and Julie. Our first-born son, Jeff, was diagnosed with fragile X syndrome one week prior to his first birthday. The early 1993 diagnosis was a “lucky stab in the dark.” At that time, little was known about the disorder and we struggled to find Fragile X-specific information, referral, intervention and support for the newly diagnosed. In turn, we sought a comprehensive resource network on Fragile X serving the medical community, affected families and disability groups. We ultimately embraced the National Fragile X Foundation—and they turned out to be a vital resource! Their collective wisdom, educational resources, support, commitment to research and effective advocacy have been an enormous help to our family and have positively impacted many other affected families. I am truly honored to now serve on the NFXF Board and look forward to more actively participating in an organization that is near and dear to my heart. Together, let’s find a cure!!
I work in Washington, DC in Government Affairs. Most of my career has revolved around working for and with elected officials and not-for-profits. On May 26, 2001 I married the most amazing woman I have ever met. Buffy and I have two children. Our daughter Georgia is a typical 8 year old girl. She is a wonderful, thoughtful and kind 8 year old who has worked with us as a team to help raise her younger brother. Jimmy Jr., is 6 years old and has the full mutation. It’s been a blessing to see how our non-verbal boy is capable of communicating his love for others. It is because of Fragile X, that we have been blessed in ways we never could have imagined. The Foundation has been a critical resource for our family since the day we received our diagnosis. We not only found great materials to help us learn about Fragile X but we met some wonderful people who understood what we were going through and had a love for our son that only other Fragile X parents are capable of. Buffy coordinates the Northern Virginia Fragile X Families Links Group and we hosted our first Educational Conference in October of 2011. If you have a newly diagnosed child and don’t know where to begin, I encourage you to send an email and just say “Help, where do I begin”. I promise you will find help and you will begin a journey that leads to a richer more fulfilling life than you ever imagined. I remember sending that first email and was grateful for the response I received. My email is email@example.com
My wife, Joy, and I are the lucky parents of two amazing young boys. Our lives were forever changed when Tyler, our youngest son, was diagnosed with fragile X syndrome at 18 months. Diagnosis day came in early 2010 after an exhausting 12-month marathon of physician meetings, therapies, tests, diagnoses and an emotional roller coaster ride because of false negatives. Despite the rough road to diagnosis, we consider it a blessing to have learned about Tyler’s condition at his early age, because this has allowed us to capitalize on early intervention therapies. Since Tyler’s diagnosis, our family has benefited from the overwhelming support, experience and expertise of many parents, professionals, and physicians in the Fragile X community, which was primarily made possible through the existence and effectiveness of the National Fragile X Foundation. A testament to the experience and expertise of the Fragile X community and the effectiveness of the NFXF was made very evident when Joy’s dad was diagnosed with FXTAS, a condition he has suffered from throughout his life, within one month of Tyler’s diagnosis. This is extraordinary considering no one in our extended families had ever heard of Fragile X or FXTAS before Tyler’s diagnosis. I am extremely honored to be a part of the NFXF Board of Directors, and look forward to embracing these new responsibilities by working work with the board, foundation team, and others that are committed to the cause of changing the world by finding a cure for Fragile X! My wife and I are parents and advocates first, but both continue to work (Joy is a VP of sales & marketing for a human resources services company and I am a CFO for a technology company). We reside in Orange County, California, and are both excited about doing what we can to further the mission of the National Fragile X Foundation.
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My wife Tina and I were blessed with our son Hayden in March 2005. As time went on, we noticed Hayden wasn’t quite meeting “typical” developmental goals, and we saw him falling behind some of the children in his play group. Following “Mother’s intuition,” we began getting him tested. Finally, on October 22, 2007, we were hit with the news that Hayden has fragile X syndrome. After the initial shock and a few months of unanswered questions, my wife contacted the NFXF. They put us in contact with members of the Fragile X Association of Michigan, which is where we started our long and rewarding friendships with so many others in the FX community. FXAM also helped us establish a wonderful relationship with the NFXF. I attended Advocacy Day for the first time in 2008. With sadness yet excitement for a new challenge, we moved to San Antonio, Texas in 2010. Along with my wife and many families we met in Texas, we formed the Fragile X Alliance of Texas in April 2010. I am proud to say that we’ve grown FXAT from its roots in San Antonio to also include Houston as one of our chapters. I am honored and humbled to have been asked to sit on the NFXF Board of Directors. I was recently looking back at my first blog posting in 2008 as I wanted to try and chronicle our journey with Fragile X, and the title of that post seems so perfect now: “Moving Forward.”
I first became aware of Fragile X when my cousin William was diagnosed in 2004. Since then, my family has become extremely active in raising awareness and participating in national events for Fragile X. As a member of the Florida State House of Representatives from 2002-2010, I was able to help secure start-up funding for the Fragile X Clinic, which is part of the Fragile X Clinical & Research Consortium, at the Mailman Center for Child Development at the University of Miami. I have participated in three National Advocacy days in Washington, DC and hope to start state advocacy days here in Florida as well. I am very proud to be on the NFXF Board and look forward to working to make life better for all families living with Fragile X.
My wife, Anne, and I are the proud parents of Alec (21) who was diagnosed with fragile X syndrome in 1995 when he was 4 years old. Subsequent to Alec’s diagnosis no fewer than 8 other members of our extended family have received similar or related diagnosis’. As a result, we are truly a family dedicated to helping others that share our circumstances, common challenges and blessings. Our journey has allowed us to both laugh and (occasionally) cry but has always simply been accepted as our path and one that we readily embrace.
I have worked in the financial services industry for 35 years, the last 17 with Charles Schwab. I spend most of my time speaking at client events on a broad array of topics including behavioral finance, portfolio management strategies, current events and the state of worldwide markets and economies. Anne works in the corporate wellness field and is the backbone of our family. She has been a local advocate and contact for other Fragile X families, a consistent fund-raiser and a sounding board for ideas related to potential support programs and resources.
I am honored to have been accepted as a member of the NFXF Board of Directors! My passion and desire is to use my experience with communication strategies, business development and advocacy efforts in order to inspire folks to continue to “spread the word” and enhance the ongoing financial fitness of our organization.
In most cases, families do not go to find the world of Fragile X but rather, it comes to them. This is how it is for my family. The first days and weeks of knowing our son Justin’s diagnosis, in 2006 when he had just turned 5, were dark. With this diagnosis, we learned my father-in-law, who had just passed, suffered with FXTAS and other family members were dealing with FXPOI. Things did begin and continue to brighten as my wife Shari and I have the fortune to be guided by and speak with the best minds associated with fragile X syndrome. Early on, as we, our daughter Hailey included, began to attack and cope with this life, we made the decision that we could not sit back and wait for research to happen. We decided to be proactive so we could say we did everything we could to help. We shared this thought with Drs Randi and Paul Hagerman and Louise Gane during our summer 2007 visit to the MIND Institute. They sent us home with a road map for Justin and a mission to raise money to purchase some much needed equipment for research.
In the fall of 2007, we raised enough money to buy the equipment AND establish the Justin Silver Fly With Me Fund (FWMF). Initially, the FWMF was an effort to help families in need by subsidizing travel expenses to the MIND Institute. Life was much better for us after visits to the Boston clinic, the MIND Institute and the clinic at Rush University Hospital and we wanted to help other families obtain the same type of relief appropriate medical care provides. Today, the fund has grown to include all the clinics through the National Fragile X Foundation. If interested in learning more please come check it out at www.flywithmefund.org or on the NFXF website.
I am honored to serve on the Board of Directors and will continue to do everything I can to help drive the NFXF mission and vision forward.
Developmental Pediatrician Dr. Randi Hagerman co-founded the NFXF in 1984 and has helped guide it ever since. In 2009, after more than 100 board meetings, Randi agreed that it was time to step aside and let others bring their expertise to the board. There is no aspect of the NFXF that Randi has not helped shape. Her strength as both a clinician and as a researcher has informed the NFXF mission and strategic plan. She and her husband Dr. Paul Hagerman generously support the NFXF mission. While Randi is no longer a board member, she is active on the NFXF Scientific & Clinical Advisory Committee and within the Fragile X Clinical & Research Consortium where she represents the UC Davis Medical Center’s MIND Institute as Medical Director of the Fragile X Clinic. Randi continues to be a sought after speaker and her work has expanded from fragile X syndrome to all Fragile X-associated Disorders. Randi is continually on the go as an international spokesperson for Fragile X. Fortunately, she’s only an hour away from the NFXF headquarters by car and seconds away by phone when we need to call upon her for her guidance, advice and wisdom.
Over the years, Harris N. Hollin has consistently demonstrated dedication, enthusiasm and commitment to supporting a cure for Fragile X. He has personally and profoundly been touched by his grandson, Matthew, who is fully affected by fragile X syndrome. His need to help Matthew and the thousands of other children and adults with fragile X syndrome caused him to found Conquer Fragile X Foundation (CFXF), which over the years funded scientific research all over the world, facilitated information and resource sharing among scientists and supported collaborative work among the world’s premier research labs in order to advance the scientific body of knowledge about Fragile X, its causes and potential treatments. In 2007 CFXF merged with the National Fragile X Foundation.
Harris enlisted in the US Army and served in Korea as an assistant platoon leader. He returned as a First Lieutenant, having earned a Bronze Star. He graduated from the University of Pennsylvania on the G.I. Bill and has since been followed at Penn by his three sons and three of his grandsons. After several positions, of increasing importance, he became President of Revlon’s International Pharmaceutical group, USV.
Harris created a successful business career in the health care area, building a modest pharmaceutical company, Lemmon, into what is now the multi-billion dollar United States division of TEVA Pharmaceuticals. Harris has numerous public service endeavors to his credit, including his service as an Associate Trustee of the University of Pennsylvania, and a Director Emeritus of the Wistar Institute, Harris also served as an Advisory Board Member for the Center on Aging and Health and the Division of Geriatric Medicine and Gerontology at the Johns Hopkins University Medical Center, and as Vice Chair of the Pennsylvania Chamber of Commerce. He is the Founding Chairman of Israel Elwyn, a leading provider of services to the intellectually disabled, in Israel. In 2006, Harris was honored by his appointment by President Bush to the President’s Committee for People with Intellectual Disabilities. Harris and his lovely wife of 58 years, Sande, have three sons and eight grandchildren. They live in Florida.
As a leader of the Sewall Child Development Center in Denver, Colorado, Gene Koelbel was instrumental in the early success of the National Fragile X Foundation through her support of and collaboration with Dr. Randi Hagerman in the early 1980’s. Along with her husband Walt, Gene provided crucial financial support for early fragile X syndrome screening. She served on the NFXF Board of Directors throughout the 1980’s and 1990’s. Her, and her husband’s financial support of the NFXF in 1999 was crucial to its successful transition from a very small and poorly staffed organization to the much larger and effective organization of today. Gene also stepped forward to provide major financial support of the NFXF’s 25th Anniversary Campaign in 2009.